Wednesday, 26 February 2014

A house the Big Bad Wolf would approve of

I am blessed to be in a home school co-op with creative and talented mothers. Two weeks ago, our craft session was painting a cardboard house, a marvellous idea by Kathy! I'd never have thought of this, let alone attempt this on my own.

The session was wet, messy, there were multicoloured hands, faces, and even FEET(!), but we all had great fun!
 
Another thing I like about this co-op is that they make me feel normal. I'm not the only strange creature who collects cardboard boxes, tissue boxes and finished toilet rolls, JUST IN CASE we might need them for an unknown project in the future! (Note to husband: See, I'm normal!)


Photos courtesy of Wan Ying and Sally

Tuesday, 25 February 2014

Yoga for kids and Sensory Intergration

Our family does yoga every day. If you visit us before breakfast, you'll find our family sprawled out on the floor in various contorted positions. We've found that it helps both the children and adults alike to feel more balanced and happy and ready to face a new day!

The little boy loves to do the dinosaur and bridge poses, and the little girl likes to do the flower and swan. Sometimes, they even have short-distance telephone conersations with each other!




Sensory Integration


Sensory integration is the ability to take in, organize, and process the information (smells, sights, sounds, touch, taste) and stimuli around us.

Many behavioural problems (hyperactivity, attention deficit, withdrawal, irritability, etc) are related to the child's ability to integrate the stimuli around them.

There are a few ways we can integrate, nourish and engage our physical bodies and base senses:

  1. Proprioceptive - large movements, physically challenging activities, hopping, pushing, pulling
  2. Vestibular - balance / spinning
  3. Tactile - boundaries and connections
  4. Crossing midlines - moving the body from left to right, up and down, front and back
In our modern world, we don't get to stimulate these senses much. We don't have to haul water, work on the  fields, or chop wood, so we have to pay some attention to engaging our bodies. More so for children, who still are learning what their bodies can or can't do. Yoga helps children nourish their bodies and integrate their senses.

In a nutshell, we found that our children listen better, behave better, are happier, less reactive, and less irritable after they have done yoga! The same goes for adults!





Other Benefits of Yoga for children

The benefits for children include greater flexibility, stamina, strength, coordination, self-confidence, focus and concentration.

Our little girl has been doing yoga for over a year now. When we first started, she couldn't do the wheel pose. So we spent some time working on:
  1. Physical and Mental Preparation - "Be in position,  calm yourself, breathe slowly."
  2. Focus - "Close your eyes and visualise yourself in that position."
  3. Concentration - "Breathe deeply, count to three, and then push!"
She can now hold the wheel pose and count to 40!


Yoga and Ballet

Some yoga positions are similar to ballet exercises. I did ballet for 5 years when I was 7 years old, and when I took up yoga at the age of 20, I managed to pick up yoga quite easily because some of the poses were the same, like the wheel, the shoulder stand, the plough, and the swan.


Yoga and Pregancy

During my first pregnancy, I did pre-natal yoga once a week. It was basically Yoga Lite, modified to accommodate a growing bump. For the second pregnancy, I did half an hour of yoga every morning. The Shoulder Stand really helped my swollen feet. But I couldn't do the Wheel pose, though! Needless to say, my second pregnancy was much easier, I was physically fitter and more agile, and I frightened quite a lot of people by running after my active toddler, carrying her and squatting down to pick things up from the floor - even up to the day I was due!

The ABCs of Yoga for Kids: 56 Learning Cards
By Teresa Anne Power

Our children love these. They look at the pictures on each card and imitate the poses on their own! There's even a poem behind each card that describes how to get the pose right. It also helps if the parents have some experience in yoga so they can help the children to focus their attention on the right areas.
 
The yoga cards are available from:

Monday, 17 February 2014

Gruffalo-themed birthday dinner

The little girl's birthday dinner was great fun, thanks to a brilliant idea from The princess and the rock!

The Gruffalo is one of their favourite stories. They've played and replayed the audio CD so many times that even their dad has memorised the story, complete with all the music and sound effects!

We planned the menu with the kids and printed, cut out, and stuck the menu labels together (another craft session!)



The same food seemed to taste better once it was identified as part of the Gruffalo, and the children wiped out the food.

The funniest thing was to hear them clamouring for more 'poisonous warts'!


Printables:

Thursday, 13 February 2014

The Animal Resort

The Animal Resort is a kampong-style farm with rabbits, guinea pigs, a horse, fish, beautiful grey crowned cranes, a cassowary, white and blue peacocks, chickens, and a fierce Marabou Stork. The geese and ducks are free-range and they will eat out of your hand if you let them. 
 


You have to purchase food to feed the animals. Unless you like animal saliva all over you, it's best not to have your hands full so you can designate one hand to feed animals and the other to do important things like scratch your nose!
The little shop also sells snacks for humans, like biscuits and bottled drinks, if you get peckish. 

When it was time to go....

Me: Come on... We need to go and get lunch!

Little boy: (dismayed) No! I don't want to!

Me: Why not? Aren't you hungry?

Little boy: (sadly) I want to eat nice food... not these animal biscuits!


What to bring:

  1. Wet wipes - for cleaning your hands after feeding the animals. The taps were out of order the last time we visited so we rinsed our hands with the hose in the toilet.
  2. Tissues - the toilets are very basic and toilet roll wasn't available.
  3. Insect repellant - for those with delicious blood. I'm quite yummy (to mosquitoes) so I wear jeans and covered shoes to protect my legs!

Official website:

The Animal Resort

Getting there:

81 Seletar West Farmway 5
Singapore 798061
Tel: (+65) 6338 7665

Opening hours: 10am - 6pm

Admission is free.

The Animal Resort is not accessible by public transport so you will probably have to drive or take a cab there.

From TPE
•Exit by Jalan Kayu slip road and travel for 0.75 km   (passing by shop houses and a petrol kiosk)

•Turn right to Seletar West Farmway 4

•Travel for 0.31 km till the side road and turn right to   Seletar West Farmway 6

Monday, 10 February 2014

The BEST Toy ever (according to Mummy!) - Magic Clothes Folding Board

The Magic Clothes Folder is one of the best inventions ever. I've always gotten the kids to help with the laundry, but it inevitably ended up with my having to either close one eye to the messy pile or re-fold their clothes, not to mention their frustration when their best attempts still looked like what they called "chee chong PAO".

The kids love using the folding boards and the results are surprisingly good! A t-shirt can be folded in three steps, and each piece of clothing takes them less than 10 seconds! Folding laundry is now peaceful and fast, and hardly a chore.



The Magic Clothes Folder comes in two sizes - for kids and adults. I bought one for myself too! :)

I bought mine from Freya in Wonderland. Ordered it online and picked it up from their shop in Plaza Singapura, level 3, opposite Thai Express.

Tuesday, 28 January 2014

Brown Rice Sushi


Our latest craze that makes for really fun lunches - homemade Brown Rice sushi!


Lunch + handicraft + fun all rolled into one!
The best thing is, the kids love to eat what they have made, so the food disappears really quickly!

 

We used the leftover seaweed to cut out an underwater landscape. There's an octopus, shark, cuttlefish, whale, and seaweed!

Ingredients

  • Short grain brown rice + brown rice vinegar, brown sugar molasses, salt
  • Cucumber, pear, avocado, smoked salmon
  • Nori seaweed
  • Japanese mayonnaise
  • Sesame seeds (to make rice balls and maki)
  • Endless creativity!

We watched these videos first before making the sushi:





Saturday, 25 January 2014

Far East Organization Children's Garden @ Gardens By The Bay




The children enjoyed the Toddler Play Zone and Water Play area (for older children). There were the usual water jets and fountains that feature in most water play areas like the zoo, Palawan beach, NEX, Changi City Point and Sembawang Shopping Centre. But still, water is water, the the kids loved it all the same!

The husbands watched the children while Cheryl and I relaxed in the Amphitheatre with Covered Canopy. There was lots of sitting room and with the huge ceiling fans, it didn't matter that it was 12 noon!


The Rainforest Tree Houses were undoubtedly the biggest hit. The children disappeared into the treehouses and completely forgot about us, scaling fearful heights and shinnying up poles and ladders. Reminiscent of Robin Hill in the Isle of Wight, the nets, rope bridges, hanging baskets, slides and spinning wheels formed an enchanted forest. I liked the way the play structures were built around the trees, with reinforcement bars to help the branches support the weight of exuberant, bouncy climbers. There were a few friendly, young, uniformed staff stationed at the different play areas to ensure the safety of the children... and also to help spin them on the wheel!

Soon, the children got hungry and having no desire to venture further with wet, hungry children, we bought bento lunch sets from the Children's Garden Cafe just next to the play area, and sat down at the amphitheatre. It was about $6 per set for microwaved frozen food (we had mashed potato with fish and veggies), but it tasted good! There were salads, fruits, snacks, and a good variety of Asian bento meal sets.

When we were sufficiently revived, we took a 5 minute walk to Satay by the Bay. There were plenty of children-sized tables and chairs which were surprisingly comfortable, even for the dads! We don't eat mammals so I can't tell you how the satay tasted, but our friends enjoyed theirs. But the Ghee Thosai was wonderful!


Official website:

Gardens by the Bay - Far East Organization Children's Garden



Getting there:

18 Marina Gardens Drive
Singapore 018953

Open 9:00 AM - 9:00 PM daily


Closed for maintenance every Monday, or the next working day if a public holiday falls on the Monday of that week





More details at Gardens by the Bay - Visitor Information

Saturday, 21 December 2013

A Lovely Christmas Tale

It's so nice to read a children's Christmas story that focuses on the joy of giving to the needy,  as opposed to Santas, elves and toy factories.

We just finished this cosy bedtime story and it sparked off a discussion about who Santa Claus really was.

A St. Nicholas Story or The Fiercest Little Animal In The Forest
by Terri Reinhart, illustrated by Patrick Reinhart
The pine marten was the fiercest little animal in the forest.
When other animals came near him, he growled and snarled and snapped at them. Then the animals ran away.
Read the full story


Don't forget to check out the other lovely tales on the St Nicholas Center website!

Thursday, 12 December 2013

Little Guilin 小桂林



We discovered Little Guilin by accident. We got lost while driving back from lunch at Sunny Choice Organic Cafe. When we drove past Bukit Batok East Ave 5, the astounding view made us abandon any plans to bring our children home for their nap. We parked at an HDB carpark and had a lovely walk. The locals are probably immune to it, but the scenary was so beautiful and there was such a great sense of space, that we felt like we were overseas!







It's an easy walk, and there are dome-shaped caves for people who want to rest, picnic, or meditate!


We went slightly off the beaten path and explored the secluded bushes and wooded areas. We found cigarette butts and condoms, but that was hardly surprising. The walkways were fine, though.

Some background information from Wikipedia:

Also known as Xiao Guilin among the locals, the Little Guilin looks similar to that of Guilin in China – a granite rock sitting within a lake. It was originally a disused granite quarry. In fact, the name "Bukit Batok" has been suggested to be derived from the noise made by the blasting in the granite quarry that now form the natural surroundings of Little Guilin.
In Malay, "Bukit" means hill, "Batok" means cough. So the Coughing Hills might be referring to the explosions from the granite quarry.


National Parks official website:
http://www.nparks.gov.sg/cms/index.php?option=com_visitorsguide&task=parks&id=10&Itemid=73

Getting there:

By car: We parked at the HDB open air carpark next to 524 Bukit Batok Street 52, Singapore 650524.
Little Guilin was just across the road.

By bus: 945 from Bt Batok Interchange / Bt Gombak MRT.

There are bus stops at various points along Bukit Batok East Ave 5.

By train: Apparently, it's a 2 minute walk from Bukit Gombak MRT station Exit B.

Monday, 9 December 2013

The love of a little girl

Today, the little girl woke up early. She cut an apple into slices, put them in a lunch box, filled up a water bottle, and packed them in her Daddy's laptop bag. She explained, "I wanted to eat the apple, but I love you so I packed it for you to bring to work so you won't be hungry at work."

I think I have never seen Daddy go so soft and marshmallow-fuzzy. Such is the joy of having a little girl's love.

Sunday, 8 December 2013

Why do men sneeze so loudly?

At a playground with the family. Three 9-year-old boys are playing nearby.

The Husband: (explosively) Ah CHOOOOO!

A Boy: Listen! There's a dog! (Catches sight of Pan and freezes) Oops.

The boys start to giggle, and so do we!

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On a separate note, it is said that your sneeze reflects your personality. Basically - You Are What You Sneeze.

A loud, explosive sneeze is likely to come from an outgoing, demonstrative person while someone who’s shy will try and hold back, resulting in a stifled, Minnie-Mouse style expulsion, says neurologist Dr Alan Hirsch.

Source: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2313816/Are-snorter-squeaker-How-way-sneeze-reveal-real-personality.html#ixzz2mthvLPA6



The Influence of Barney on Businesses

I must confess that of late, a few of our evenings have been spent at United Square, awaiting the appearance of a purple celebrity.

It was 6pm on a Saturday night,  and the restaurant was packed, each table with at least two eager children. The air was filled with anticipation and even the adults seemed more cheerful than usual. All the children seemed unusually well behaved. By 6.50pm, my own husband could bear it no longer. Armed with two portable chairs, he strode out of the restaurant to reserve place with a good view. At 7pm, the restaurant was practically empty.

When I commented to the friendly waitress that business was good, she explained that the Barney show split the customers into two frenzied sessions, before 7pm, and after 7.30pm, and that they even had to extend their working hours because many people started dinner late after the show ended!

Thanks to my eager husband, we managed to get front view box seats! We sat through Angelina Ballerina, Bob the Builder, and Fireman Sam, but when Barney came out, you could practically hear a collective intake of breath, followed by cheering!

It was then that I realised that a large number of Singaporean parents know Barney songs by heart. Very impressive. Some were even singing along as they walked around the mall.

At 7.40pm, the mall was back to normal, but with everyone smiling just a bit more than usual. Just because of a purple dinosaur.

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Live musicals daily at United Square till 16 Dec 2013. It's an annual event.
Visit the website for more details.





Friday, 6 December 2013

The Laid-back Parent

Happiness is oversleeping till 10am and waking up to see this:


The little girl had set the breakfast table and even prepared our favourite drinks! It seems that the less parents do, the more space children have to blossom and find themselves.

We love our children and it is so easy to fall into the trap of over-parenting and depriving our children of truly owning their experiences and being independent.

Here's the book that made me lazy:

The Idle Parent

The Idle Parent: Why Laid-Back Parents Raise Happier and Healthier Kids, by Tom Hodgkinson
Many parents today spend a whole lot of time worrying and wondering- frantically "helicoptering" over their children with the hope that they might somehow keep (or make?) them flawless. But where is this approach to childcare getting us? According to Hodgkinson, in our quest to give our kids everything, we fail to give them the two things they need most: the space and time to grow up self-reliant, confident, happy, and free. In this smart and hilarious book, Hodgkinson urges parents to stop worrying and instead start nurturing the natural instincts toward creativity and independence that are found in every child. And the great irony: in doing so, we will find ourselves becoming happier and better parents.

Available from the Book Depository.com
Books are cheaper than most other online stores and shipping is free!

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It's been a few years since I spotted that book on the library shelf, but it did shape some of our family practices.

Here are some helpful tips we learnt over the years:

1. As far as possible, try to be unhelpful.

2. When the children struggle, guide their hands and go through the motions with them. It may be faster to do it yourself, but if you take the time to train them, it will pay off in the long run.

3. If putting on shoes and socks takes forever, allocate 10 minutes for them to do it by themselves.

4. Place cups, bowls, fruits, water, and daily necessities within easy reach of small people.

5. Little people can soap and shower themselves.

6. Little hands can scoop out their own dinners and serve others.

7. Children can participate in household chores like clearing dinner dishes, laundry and cleaning the house, and not play while the adults slave away!

Parenthood will become much easier and more enjoyable. And maybe the prospect of having 12 children (like in the old days) will fill us with delight!

Has it really been four years?

Since my last blog post, yes, it's been four long years.I guess it got lost in the midst of diapers, tantrums, runny noses, sandcastles, crayons, cuddles and the general excitement of having two Energizer Bunnies invade our home. A highly-welcome and blessed invasion, I might add!

If it wasn't for Shumin's private investigation efforts, I wouldn't have remembered the dive-in-i-am blog! It's somewhat outdated now, so I've moved on to a new blog to chronicle our homeschooling journey and our new life as we throw caution to the wind and pursue our dreams.

Anyway, I now know, thanks to Shumin, that my blog is discoverable to competent Google searchers!

So much has changed.

We've welcomed Roy.

Said goodbye to Mr Darcy, my companion of 12 years,  who will always have a special place in my heart.

Nurtured a garden on our balcony, growing pandan, lime, curry, Indian marjoram,  Kang Kong, and more...

Stepped up recycling efforts with Garbage Enzyme, Bokashi composting,  making our own fertiliser and household cleaners, and bringing containers and canvas bags out for shopping.

Discovered the joy of nature walks and walking barefoot on grass.

Experienced our marriage going through the washing machine - it's been through the mud, scrubbed, rinsed, spun, tumble dried and ironed out...

Took a leap of faith to start homeschooling with Enki - a journey of self discovery and self mastery not only for the children, but especially for the adults. A journey to connect with our inner wisdom,  enjoy Mother Earth, have fun everyday, and accidentally learn things along the way!

Survived an overhaul of our world views and belief systems - they have been torn down and rebuilt, and torn down again. Goodbye ego, judgement and blame; welcome compassion, gratitude and respect for all life! Each day is a magic carpet ride, discovering more about the beautiful world we live in, and "seeing a world in a grain of sand."



"To see a World in a Grain of Sand
And a Heaven in a Wild Flower,
Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand
And Eternity in an hour."
 - William Blake