Showing posts with label outdoors for kids. Show all posts
Showing posts with label outdoors for kids. Show all posts

Monday, 30 November 2015


Here's a simple woodwork activity. I know many city-dwellers may baulk at the idea of a preschooler handling woodwork tools, but in many other countries, little children are tasked with chopping firewood, doing heavy chores, and can handle tools competently and responsibly. My little ones had reasonably good gross and fine motor skills, and they have been using real knives to cut fruits and vegetables since the age of 4. So far, they still have all their fingers in tact. :)

We collected thick fallen branches, sawed them into little round coins, painted them over, and voila! We created our very own currency!

Tools / Materials required:

  1. Mini hand saw (from Homefix DIY/hardware store)
  2. Small clamp (from Daiso/hardware store)
  3. Paint (use acrylic if you don't want the colours to come off upon contact with water.) 


Making the Coins

  1. Collect nice thick fallen branches that aren't rotten on the inside. 
  2. Clamp a branch to a table or bench.  Make sure that it is tightly fastened.
  3. Making sure that all body parts are out of the way, saw the branch into coins, with a rhythmic back and forth motion. Slow down as you get to the bottom of each coin so the coin doesn't break off prematurely and unevenly. You may need to hold the handsaw together with your child until he/she is competent.
  4. Paint your coins.
  5. Go shopping! :)

We may not be able to print money, but at least we can saw our own coins!


Monday, 11 May 2015

Children Need "Me Time" too! + Craft with Ixora Flowers.


Ixora Craft

The kids surprised me with this one. This is what happened when we put 3 children together for 8 hours outdoors without planning any activities:  They invented their own toys and handicrafts.

I spent an entire Sunday with a dear friend. Both our husbands were away, so we parked ourselves and our children at Labrador Park, with no plans at all, but to enjoy the sea breeze. Besides some kick scooters and rollerblades, we had brought nothing for the children to play with. When they were tired of running about, they went off to find something else to do. Then finding them too quiet, we went to check on them, and discovered that they had devised their own craft session using natural materials. The little boy created a magic wand using a small fallen branch, leaves and flowers.

The girls invented their own Ixora craft:

  1. Collect big leaves and fallen ixora flowers.
  2. Pierce holes using a thin twig.
  3. Insert the ixora stems into the holes.


Less is More

Here was an instance where we discovered that "less is more", and sometimes necessity (or scarcity!) is the mother of invention.

We often provide copious resources and materials for our children in the name of education and brain development, but perhaps this Stimulation Surplus may actually create a Creativity Deficit.

Children Need "Me Time" too!

It brought me back to the days past when I was a latch-key kid. With hours of free time alone at home, I designed my own board games, card games, wrote poems, taught myself HTML and even designed a fan website for Tom Cruise that received several hundred hits a day. Yes, as a teenager, I was highly indignant that Tom Cruise was so under-represented in the early days of the internet, so I spent many afternoons creating a comprehensive fan site! Anyway, there's a kind of satisfaction that only creating can give, which is one good thing that came out of the many lonely hours. But I am by no means recommending subjecting a child to hours of loneliness... or Tom Cruise(!).

The middle way, for me, would be to provide a few hours of unsupervised 'alone time' for each child. Every afternoon, we have an hour or so of "quiet time", with each child in their own designated cosy corner. It's a much-needed break for me, and some of their most creative inventions happen then.
During this period, they are free to do anything they like, as long as it is generally permitted and legal!

The children enjoy this time because:

  1. They can do craft or play without interruptions or disturbances from their siblings or parents.
  2. They have the space do what they enjoy.
  3. They learn to respect each others' need for space and privacy.

The parents love "Me Time for Children" because:

1) We get some much needed peace and quiet!
2) The children learn to self-sooth and solve their own problems. They can choose to nap, eat, read, have a long bath, or do craft, or anything that makes them feel better. This takes some pressure off us!



Getting Started 

  • I started doing this when the children were about 2 or 3 years old, but you could probably start earlier. 
  • I told them that this was the only time they could do whatever they liked without their sibling disturbing them. (This was a draw for my daughter who was tired of her then toddler-brother messing up her work!)
  • I began with 5 minutes, and slowly worked my way up to 1 hour. When I am especially stretched, I push it to 2 hours, but that usually ends up with the children feeling unsettled, so I try not to do that too often.


Rules
  • The physical boundaries are clearly defined, eg. a room or corner each. If you don't have the luxury of space, you can move the furniture around to create a little cosy corner. Most little children love the safe and cosy feeling of an enclosed space. 
  • During the quiet time, the children are not supposed to talk to each other unless absolutely necessary (like borrowing stationery or toys that they really need)
  • Children can do any activity, as long as it is safe, kind and generally allowed by the parents. 
  • To signal the end of the Quiet time, I sing the "clean up song" followed by the "Tea break song".
  •  We then transition to a yummy tea break! 


Tips

To get the children to be emotionally willing to spend some time alone, they need to first be emotionally fed and secure. Their love tanks need to be full enough to give them mileage to stay alone. Fill their tanks by spending quality time with them first, in a way that feeds them, perhaps snuggling up for a story, doing craft, and followed by a vigorous or outdoor activity to tire them out. By then, they should be ready for some quiet time!

What it looks like in our home

After our reading time or craft activity, or when the kids have had too much of each other, I start to sing the "Quiet Time Song" while hugging each of them tightly and leading them to their corner.
The daughter like to have a long bath, and then do some handicraft or drawing.
The son will usually disappear into a make believe world and create impressive structures using chairs, boxes, string and cloth! Or he might create some toys for himself .



Sunday, 10 May 2015

What to do while watching the children at the playground + DIY Toys: Dangling Leaf Butterfly


Like it or not, children are learning from us all the time.

They pick up how we speak to strangers, how we manage our anger, and what we do when we have free time. Do we relax, read a book, strike up a conversation, or slump on a bench and scroll through Facebook?

Usually, when my children are at the playground, I try to bring along some kind of craft for MYSELF to do while they play. I enjoy sewing toys and mending or altering clothes by hand, so I sit on the bench or floor and work quietly while they play.

Benefits of being productively occupied during outdoor play:

  1. When I'm engrossed in an activity, the children tend to disturb me less with trivial squabbles.
  2. They get curious and come to watch me, laying ground for the time in the future when they will learn this skill.
  3. By watching me work at the same item day after day, week after week, they learn patience, perseverance, and that not everything yields instant results, but that persistence pays off.  
  4. I get to do what I enjoy!

It was toward the end of one of these outings that my daughter asked if she could sew something. There were 2 trees with beautiful butterfly-shaped leaves so the Dangling Leaf Butterfly was born!

Materials needed: Needle, thread, leaves, and a small branch

1. Collect butterfly-shaped leaves, or any other leaves if you can't find them. Pick freshly fallen leaves that are not too dry. Avoid dry leaves as they may tear easily.
2. Sew down the middle, or sew the 2 leaves together.
3. Attach the other end of the thread to a stick!
4. Hold it and run!
5. Add it as a display to your Nature Table. :)


Tuesday, 21 April 2015

Nature Table - Bringing the outdoors in



The nature table is a lovely and simple way to connect children to nature.

In our home, each child has a special garden, a little box filled with sand and gravel. If we discover any treasures or gifts of nature during our outdoor adventures, we bring them home and add them to the garden. It could be a pretty pebble, shell, casuarina cone, twig or flower, anything really.  Sometimes we include leaf crafts, beeswax or other figures or we have made.

The children love to do landscaping on their own gardens and sometimes I see them hard at work re-positioning the treasures or creating stories about the creatures in the garden.

We have a few garden rules:

1. We pick up treasures, not pluck them.
2. After a certain number of items, for every new treasure that enters the garden, one old one must return to Mother Nature.  So the garden doesn't end up looking like a rubbish dump!




Useful Links:

Wednesday, 28 January 2015

Building a House of Sticks (Who's afraid of the big bad wolf?)

Another $0 toy that lasts for days!

1. Pick a sheltered location, under a big tree, with roots on two sides to support the house structure.

2. Set up the house skeleton structure by driving five sticks into the soil (two sets of parallel upside-down "v" sticks with a long stick joining them on top)

3. Bind the connecting parts with long flexible vines, leaves or aerial roots.

4. Collect lots of long sticks to build the walls.

5. Collect large leaves or palms to decorate the walls and provide some shade.

6. Take turns to hide inside or be the big bad wolf!

7. Come back the next day and continue playing! (The house is still standing after two weeks, despite the windy weather!)


Tuesday, 30 September 2014

Pierce Reservoir




If we haven't already fulfilled our outdoor/nature quota for the day, The Place to go would be Lower Pierce Reservoir to watch the sunset.

It's not a far walk from the main road or car park to the grass and water. We like Lower Pierce Reservoir because it has a cosy, kampong feel.  Most of the people there are regulars who go at the same time every evening, so after a while, you'll start to recognise some of them and smile at them!

Children will usually be hopping on the rocks, peering at small creatures hidden among the rocks, or rolling on the grass.

There are always some men fishing with rods or catching bait using little underwater cage traps, and they are almost always happy to show the kids what they are doing and admire the prawns and fish that they have caught.

Dog owners are more than happy to let our children pat their dogs and play 'fetch' with them. Our little boy has no qualms about approaching a dog twice his size and asking the owner, "May I pat you your dog?" Our little girl sometimes gets rashes after playing with dogs (especially the slobbery ones!) and we discovered that Apple Cider Vinegar REALLY helps to stop the allergic reaction within minutes! But I digress.

If you're lucky, you'll get to see the two resident White-bellied Sea Eagles flying back to their nests before the sun sets. And also the occasional kingfisher. 

The kids are quite happy to invent their own games, throwing pebbles into the water or going fishing using any sticks they find, so it can turn out to be a romantic evening for the parents to cuddle up and watch the sunset together. 


Official Website:
National Parks Board


Getting There:

By Bus
163, 167, 169, 855, 980

By Car
Lower Peirce Reservoir Park is located off Upper Thomson Road, near the junction with Ang Mo Kio Avenue 1.





Wednesday, 10 September 2014

Mid-Autumn Festival and making snowskin mooncakes!


I'm so blessed to be part of a loving and multi-talented homeschool co-op! We made vegan, gluten-free, dairy-free Snowskin mooncakes during our Mid-Autumn-themed lesson. Each mum contributed something - I did the Chang'E and Mooncake Rebellion stories while the other mums prepared the ingredients, the lantern-making craft, the poems, songs, and food.

On my own, I would NEVER have attempted to make mooncakes, but the other mums prepared the glutinous rice snow skin paste and the lotus paste, and all we had to do we to knead them, shape them and put them into the molds. It was so therapeutic that I brought the extra dough home for a repeat session! Sadly, I don't have pictures of the homeschool co-op mooncake session. We were too busy having fun and eating as we made them, and our hands were too gooey to take any photos! Here's the recipe and step-by-step instructions on making no-bake Snowskin Mooncakes.

On Mid-Autumn night, we gathered for a potluck dinner at Bishan Park, followed by lots and lots of fire play with lanterns, sparklers and candles! It's not often that children are allowed to play with fire, and they were entranced. Which means that we mums had lots of time to do what we needed to do - stuff ourselves and talk. And Talk. And TALK! It's a highly important activity. It keeps me sane, makes me feel understood, gives me new ideas, and let's me know that I'm not alone in this sometimes overwhelming world of motherhood!

Thursday, 24 April 2014

Venus Drive: Outdoor Haven at 12 noon... or when it's Hazy!

2 stops from Thomson Plaza


This is where we hang out whenever:
  1. The dreaded HAZE is back and we want to be outdoors. The air there is MUCH FRESHER than any indoor place you can name... We have the thick canopy of trees to thank!
  2. It's 12 noon and the sun is scorching but we want a cool, shady nature walk, NOW!
  3. We have less than an hour to spare and we want a relaxing oasis in the middle of the day. Unlike MacRitchie Reservoir Park or Pierce Reservoir, the rainforest is 10 second walk from the carpark, and a few minutes away from the bus stop, so the little ones won't be tired out before we even get to the rainforest.
  4. We want to get up close and personal with squirrels, monkeys, dragonflies, pondskaters, monitor lizards, a little stream, unusual trees and plants, without having a boardwalk to separate us from them, or high visitor traffic to scare animals away.
This trail actually leads to the HSBC Tree Top Walk, but we haven't managed to make it that far with the two little ones yet. It's 2.5 km (a 45 mins - 1 hr walk for adults) from the carpark at Venus Drive. But it's worth going in for a short stroll and turning back before the little ones get tired. 

Official Website:


Opening Hours 

Venus Drive Rainforest Trail
All the time!

Tree Top Trail
Tue to Fri: 9am-5pm, 
Sat, Sun and Public Holidays: 8.30am-5pm.

Getting There:

Park at Venus Drive carpark. It's just further up from Sin Ming Ave, and near Singapore Island Country Club.

Buses: 132, 163, 165, 166, 167, 52, 980. 
Alight along Upper Thomson Road, opposite Flame Tree Park Condo.


Friday, 21 March 2014

"Give that Skink a beer. No, give that Skink a Tiger."


He sat, motionless, staring at the can of beer. Should I? Or shouldn't I? Frozen in the same position for 15 minutes, the Common Sun Skink mulled over this difficult decision. 

As we sat down for a rest at the MacRitchie Reservoir boardwalk along the Prunus-Petai Trail, we joined the skink in its reverie, enjoying the stillness of the forest, punctuated by the shouts of canoeists having their training.

It was the second skink we saw in a week, but unlike the previous one that disappeared into the bushes when we appeared, this one gave us ample time to admire his sleek shiny body.

Also known as the Many-lined Sun Skink, it can be identified by the five or seven dark lines on its ventral surface parallel to its body line. Older, larger specimens are commonly found lacking the thick tail.  
Skinks are characterised by their smooth, scaled skins, and small legs. Mainly terrestrial and diurnal, they are to be found basking in the sun along forest tracks or on tree trunks.
Source: EcologyAsia
Many of our nature walks end up being litter-picking walks. From empty drink cans, snack wrappers and plastic bags, one wonders why anyone who took the trouble to walk several kilometres through a beautiful rainforest would then desecrate it with litter.

Another time, we came across bits of a torn styrofoam cup strewn all over the forest. We puzzled over which insane person might do such a thing and realized it was probably a monkey that was trying to lick up the last few drops of someone's Kopi-C.

Years ago, when we were scuba diving at Phi Phi island, Thailand, we sat on the dive boat, all excited and ready to jump into the water. Our American dive master finished up his beer and cigarette and tossed them into the sea - the very sea we were about to jump into. So much for pristine waters!

If you do enjoy nature, please help to pick up the rubbish you see along the way. It's all about loving Mother Earth and your fellow human beings, who will then get to enjoy a more beautiful nature walk.




Friday, 14 March 2014

A Monitor Lizard Went Swiming One Day






This is why I love the outdoors. The second swimming monitor lizard in a month!

This monitor lizard was more than a metre long, and was cooling off in the Botanic Gardens pond at about 3pm in the afternoon. The monitor lizard ignored the koi and had a leisurely swim around the pool a few times before making its way up the rocks and disappearing into the bushes.

We saw another monitor lizard in the water at MacRitchie reservoir at 12 noon, a few weeks back. It was foraging for food near the reservoir bank during low tide.

Tuesday, 25 February 2014

Yoga for kids and Sensory Intergration

Our family does yoga every day. If you visit us before breakfast, you'll find our family sprawled out on the floor in various contorted positions. We've found that it helps both the children and adults alike to feel more balanced and happy and ready to face a new day!

The little boy loves to do the dinosaur and bridge poses, and the little girl likes to do the flower and swan. Sometimes, they even have short-distance telephone conersations with each other!




Sensory Integration


Sensory integration is the ability to take in, organize, and process the information (smells, sights, sounds, touch, taste) and stimuli around us.

Many behavioural problems (hyperactivity, attention deficit, withdrawal, irritability, etc) are related to the child's ability to integrate the stimuli around them.

There are a few ways we can integrate, nourish and engage our physical bodies and base senses:

  1. Proprioceptive - large movements, physically challenging activities, hopping, pushing, pulling
  2. Vestibular - balance / spinning
  3. Tactile - boundaries and connections
  4. Crossing midlines - moving the body from left to right, up and down, front and back
In our modern world, we don't get to stimulate these senses much. We don't have to haul water, work on the  fields, or chop wood, so we have to pay some attention to engaging our bodies. More so for children, who still are learning what their bodies can or can't do. Yoga helps children nourish their bodies and integrate their senses.

In a nutshell, we found that our children listen better, behave better, are happier, less reactive, and less irritable after they have done yoga! The same goes for adults!





Other Benefits of Yoga for children

The benefits for children include greater flexibility, stamina, strength, coordination, self-confidence, focus and concentration.

Our little girl has been doing yoga for over a year now. When we first started, she couldn't do the wheel pose. So we spent some time working on:
  1. Physical and Mental Preparation - "Be in position,  calm yourself, breathe slowly."
  2. Focus - "Close your eyes and visualise yourself in that position."
  3. Concentration - "Breathe deeply, count to three, and then push!"
She can now hold the wheel pose and count to 40!


Yoga and Ballet

Some yoga positions are similar to ballet exercises. I did ballet for 5 years when I was 7 years old, and when I took up yoga at the age of 20, I managed to pick up yoga quite easily because some of the poses were the same, like the wheel, the shoulder stand, the plough, and the swan.


Yoga and Pregancy

During my first pregnancy, I did pre-natal yoga once a week. It was basically Yoga Lite, modified to accommodate a growing bump. For the second pregnancy, I did half an hour of yoga every morning. The Shoulder Stand really helped my swollen feet. But I couldn't do the Wheel pose, though! Needless to say, my second pregnancy was much easier, I was physically fitter and more agile, and I frightened quite a lot of people by running after my active toddler, carrying her and squatting down to pick things up from the floor - even up to the day I was due!

The ABCs of Yoga for Kids: 56 Learning Cards
By Teresa Anne Power

Our children love these. They look at the pictures on each card and imitate the poses on their own! There's even a poem behind each card that describes how to get the pose right. It also helps if the parents have some experience in yoga so they can help the children to focus their attention on the right areas.
 
The yoga cards are available from:

Thursday, 13 February 2014

The Animal Resort

The Animal Resort is a kampong-style farm with rabbits, guinea pigs, a horse, fish, beautiful grey crowned cranes, a cassowary, white and blue peacocks, chickens, and a fierce Marabou Stork. The geese and ducks are free-range and they will eat out of your hand if you let them. 
 


You have to purchase food to feed the animals. Unless you like animal saliva all over you, it's best not to have your hands full so you can designate one hand to feed animals and the other to do important things like scratch your nose!
The little shop also sells snacks for humans, like biscuits and bottled drinks, if you get peckish. 

When it was time to go....

Me: Come on... We need to go and get lunch!

Little boy: (dismayed) No! I don't want to!

Me: Why not? Aren't you hungry?

Little boy: (sadly) I want to eat nice food... not these animal biscuits!


What to bring:

  1. Wet wipes - for cleaning your hands after feeding the animals. The taps were out of order the last time we visited so we rinsed our hands with the hose in the toilet.
  2. Tissues - the toilets are very basic and toilet roll wasn't available.
  3. Insect repellant - for those with delicious blood. I'm quite yummy (to mosquitoes) so I wear jeans and covered shoes to protect my legs!

Official website:

The Animal Resort

Getting there:

81 Seletar West Farmway 5
Singapore 798061
Tel: (+65) 6338 7665

Opening hours: 10am - 6pm

Admission is free.

The Animal Resort is not accessible by public transport so you will probably have to drive or take a cab there.

From TPE
•Exit by Jalan Kayu slip road and travel for 0.75 km   (passing by shop houses and a petrol kiosk)

•Turn right to Seletar West Farmway 4

•Travel for 0.31 km till the side road and turn right to   Seletar West Farmway 6

Saturday, 25 January 2014

Far East Organization Children's Garden @ Gardens By The Bay




The children enjoyed the Toddler Play Zone and Water Play area (for older children). There were the usual water jets and fountains that feature in most water play areas like the zoo, Palawan beach, NEX, Changi City Point and Sembawang Shopping Centre. But still, water is water, the the kids loved it all the same!

The husbands watched the children while Cheryl and I relaxed in the Amphitheatre with Covered Canopy. There was lots of sitting room and with the huge ceiling fans, it didn't matter that it was 12 noon!


The Rainforest Tree Houses were undoubtedly the biggest hit. The children disappeared into the treehouses and completely forgot about us, scaling fearful heights and shinnying up poles and ladders. Reminiscent of Robin Hill in the Isle of Wight, the nets, rope bridges, hanging baskets, slides and spinning wheels formed an enchanted forest. I liked the way the play structures were built around the trees, with reinforcement bars to help the branches support the weight of exuberant, bouncy climbers. There were a few friendly, young, uniformed staff stationed at the different play areas to ensure the safety of the children... and also to help spin them on the wheel!

Soon, the children got hungry and having no desire to venture further with wet, hungry children, we bought bento lunch sets from the Children's Garden Cafe just next to the play area, and sat down at the amphitheatre. It was about $6 per set for microwaved frozen food (we had mashed potato with fish and veggies), but it tasted good! There were salads, fruits, snacks, and a good variety of Asian bento meal sets.

When we were sufficiently revived, we took a 5 minute walk to Satay by the Bay. There were plenty of children-sized tables and chairs which were surprisingly comfortable, even for the dads! We don't eat mammals so I can't tell you how the satay tasted, but our friends enjoyed theirs. But the Ghee Thosai was wonderful!


Official website:

Gardens by the Bay - Far East Organization Children's Garden



Getting there:

18 Marina Gardens Drive
Singapore 018953

Open 9:00 AM - 9:00 PM daily


Closed for maintenance every Monday, or the next working day if a public holiday falls on the Monday of that week





More details at Gardens by the Bay - Visitor Information

Thursday, 12 December 2013

Little Guilin 小桂林



We discovered Little Guilin by accident. We got lost while driving back from lunch at Sunny Choice Organic Cafe. When we drove past Bukit Batok East Ave 5, the astounding view made us abandon any plans to bring our children home for their nap. We parked at an HDB carpark and had a lovely walk. The locals are probably immune to it, but the scenary was so beautiful and there was such a great sense of space, that we felt like we were overseas!







It's an easy walk, and there are dome-shaped caves for people who want to rest, picnic, or meditate!


We went slightly off the beaten path and explored the secluded bushes and wooded areas. We found cigarette butts and condoms, but that was hardly surprising. The walkways were fine, though.

Some background information from Wikipedia:

Also known as Xiao Guilin among the locals, the Little Guilin looks similar to that of Guilin in China – a granite rock sitting within a lake. It was originally a disused granite quarry. In fact, the name "Bukit Batok" has been suggested to be derived from the noise made by the blasting in the granite quarry that now form the natural surroundings of Little Guilin.
In Malay, "Bukit" means hill, "Batok" means cough. So the Coughing Hills might be referring to the explosions from the granite quarry.


National Parks official website:
http://www.nparks.gov.sg/cms/index.php?option=com_visitorsguide&task=parks&id=10&Itemid=73

Getting there:

By car: We parked at the HDB open air carpark next to 524 Bukit Batok Street 52, Singapore 650524.
Little Guilin was just across the road.

By bus: 945 from Bt Batok Interchange / Bt Gombak MRT.

There are bus stops at various points along Bukit Batok East Ave 5.

By train: Apparently, it's a 2 minute walk from Bukit Gombak MRT station Exit B.